how would you know if its a compromise or a win-win?

Problems :)

Problems is a necessity in life. Without problems,nothing could possibly exist.

The concept of problem is always seen in a negative light.

I see a lot of people try to solve it by focusing on the symptoms with semantics and etc. While that might work( if it works, great), it doesn't really solve the problem as it requires a great deal of concentration and energy to condition your mind and control your thoughts.

I found out that to overcome the negative perception of problems is to embrace it and not try to weave your way in life to avoid it. Because every time you try to avoid it, it will hit you(its almost a default state) and you'll feel frustrated.

It's the "come from" of embracing, accepting and looking forward to solve it, will truly set you free. well at least it works for me.

:)

gotcha!!